神圣洁, 教会也必须圣洁: 第二部分 - 附录II

附录II。 我与周爱玲按马太福音18:15-17的方式沟通没有得到回应。

Jan 28th , 2015, 给周爱玲的电邮


Pastor Jocelyn,

As a believer in Christ Jesus I formally and privately ask you to publicly withdraw your meeting memo regarding the meeting between me and Ruan Zhiming, which took place in June 24th, 2014 where you were entrusted as my witness and my pastor according to the process defined in Matthew 18:15-17.


Your action to publish the memo has caused great harm to me, to my family, to the church at large and to the effort of confronting a man who had committed a serious crime against me 24+ years ago. By the time you decided to release your memo to the public, you have already been informed of my polygraph result and by the fact there was other allegation against him for additional rape crimes.  


Your action to publish the letter without my knowledge nor approval had broken two laws:


·      The confidentiality between pastor/parishioner;

·      The victims’ right to privacy act.


As Shepard and minister of the Lord, by your above action, you have not fulfilled the duty the Lord assigned to you, “Feed my sheep, feed my sheep, feed my sheep”. Instead your action had harmed the sheep deeply.

As Christians, we all sin or make mistakes, because we are still in the process of renewing our mind in Christ Jesus. However, if we continue to sin, that is not right.

“9 No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God. 1 John 3:9 (NIV)”


I therefore humbly ask you to withdraw your letter publicly and immediately.


Ling Chai


February 16th, 2015, 给周爱玲的电邮,copy18位牧者和女童之声的董事

Pastor Jocelyn,

In my Jan 28th 2015 email letter to you, I have privately and humbly asked you to withdraw your letter publicly and immediately. As of today, I have received no communication from you.

According to Matthew 18:15-17, I am following up with the same request from you in front of the 18 Pastors and our All Girls Allowed Board members. By the form of this email, they are being invited as my witnesses in this matter. We are in step II now.

I look forward hearing back from you.



February 17th, 2015:给周爱玲的电邮,copy18位牧者和女童之声的董事


Ms. Jocelyn,

I have not heard your response to my again request. I take your non-response as not willing to correct your wrongs. So I am done with the II step according to Matthew 18:15-17. Now we have 18 pastors and our Board reviewing your case against me, I respectfully asking for their judgments on this.




Feb 24th, 2015:给周爱玲的电邮,copy18位牧者和女童之声的董事


Pastor Jocelyn,

I trust you have seen the report from the 18 Pastors’ investigations: https://www.cclifefl.org/View/Article/3900

With all these additional cases against Yuan’s sexual violence, I urge you to make a public apology immediately and withdraws your letter publicly, as the Lord commanded us: “Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in their guilt.” Leviticus 19:17. Matthew 18:15-17 Step II second time.



March 4th, 2015, 给周爱玲的电邮,copy18位牧者和女童之声的董事

Pastor Jocelyn,

I have not heard back from you regarding my following requests.

Given all the recent development since my last email,

·      Yuan Zhiming’s resignation: http://www.chinasoul.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=3800:2015-03-01-07-29-37&catid=25:newsevens&Itemid=48&lang=en-gb


·      China Soul’s Board not proclaiming Yuan’s innocence: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2015/february-web-only/convert-chai-ling-accuses-yuan-zhiming-rape-china-soul-aga.html?start=3


I hope you had a chance to reconsider the actions you took in the past.


I respectfully asking the 18 pastors and my board to be my witnesses in my II step with you the 3nd time according to Matthew 18:15-17.


I look forward to hearing back from you soon.


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